There will be many a times when letting go will become an option in your life.
This may scare you to think of it, send resentments through your thoughts or feelings, it can shake you up or you may want to go to sleep and not come out. It may even excite you, inspire you or move you to do things you didn't think you would ever do.
Why do we let go? Why now? Who are you stopping yourself from being by holding on so tight?
After loosing my brother to an accident, I approach the year anniversary of his death. His death has taught me all about letting go, of what I can't control, of what's not mine to bear or carry. To let things run their course and then release it, so a new one can start. It's like the eb and flow of the ocean, high & low tide. The storms and the calm. It's the dance of life. I've learned that letting go and flowing with what ever high or low comes, up brings a peaceful middle space from which we can reflect and be present to all the gifts each experience brings.
I share this in hopes you will ask yourself, what am I struggling to let go of?
Why is it so hard to let it go? We have inner resources available to us for all the stirrings or wonderings of why things happen to us. Why we keep running into these same people, problems or patterns.
A big part of the journey here on earth is to learn to go within and ask the hard questions. Have courage to answer them or seek help in getting to the bottom of them. When you do, there is a force within you that will carry you through waves bigger than you can imagine. There is a truth that's just dying to get the chance to speak and be expressed. You will find that there is a lot to let go of, that tends to just take up our time in thoughts, worries, anxieties, escapes and fears.
Do you want to live half the life you came here to live?
Or do you want to live your life to the fullest?
Do you want to really know who you are and why you are here?
These are honest questions to ask oneself and everyone's process of going within them self or navigating through these inquiries will be unique and different. That's the way its meant to be. Not one of us is the same, so why do we judge ourselves in relation to others? Taking away all our inner power and self love.
How many of us compare ourself to the neighbour that has a bigger house, the friend who has the "perfect" relationship, the millionaire that has it all or the CEO with the best company? The list can go on. How many of you feel like you are not enough, like all the efforts you put out into work, children, friends, family and life is not enough?
Do you see how much there is to let go of? There is so much pressure, pains, stress and worry that each one of us goes through day to day. It's time to start seeing ourselves in each other. We all have human similarities. We are all living in the same system that wants us to forget what we came here to do and believe we are less. We will then need more of what may not really matter or what causes more hard than good.
If we start seeing similarities in each other, we may feel open to showing more of ourselves honestly. If we start accepting our humanness and share anyways, our hearts may have some big experiences to share and enjoy. You can feel it when you trust your heart and it goes well. You can feel when you have touched another person by YOU being YOU. The act of release, the act of giving up control and giving into your heart, higher power; the universal flow will provide you with more of YOU, that you are here to be. Instead of trying to be like everyone else and holding on tight to what you think you want or need.
We have all come here with something unique. You are here to grow. As you process through and share, you will help shape and form someone else's growth and evolution.
We are all connected more than we know.
I have learned to show myself, speak my truth even if it makes others feel uncomfortable because I do it with love. Their experience of me is not mine, it's theirs. I have learned to allow my heart it's true power and trust that my loving intentions speak loudest and vibrate into the world and lives of others as they are meant to.
When we speak truth in love, nothing can go wrong. There is no wrong, only more pathways to loving & knowing yourself more. So that you may share and spread what you have to assist more people to do the same.
So ask yourself today, what do I want to let go of? What am I holding too tightly to and what will it take for me to let go and start flowing in the direction that my heart is taking me.
We need YOU. This world needs YOU. Please, listen to yourself and let your heart guide you.
Shine your light to the world!
Woman, Wife, Mother and Intuitive. Consciously evolving with all of nature and humanity.