What’s to be said about resilience?
Defined, resilience is the capacity to recover quickly from difficulties; toughness.
Here, in this human experience and realm, we have loss.
We loose the physical presence of people we love. We loose parts of ourself willingly and unwillingly. We loose habits, games, houses, wars, relationships, weight; at times hope and in dark times we loose sight of our light.
What’s incredible is, the human’s ability to grow strength from hardship.
Our body and souls connect to a force greater than ourselves in times of need.
As a fast decline approaches for my Papa who has Alzheimers, I’m taken into a place of pre-grief which is much different than the shock grief of my latest two brothers. While allowing myself the time to process what’s to come, I am overwhelmed with tears by the love I remember sharing with him. I think to myself, how will I go through more grief?
When I forget my light and my mind shouts “shit talk” to me, trying to keep me small.
I think about all that I’ve been through. All that’s come to pass, that I have transformed through and how my experiences impacted myself, my family and friends; those I've not even met yet.
I contemplate, what's all the pains, loss, struggles, hardships, traumas, injuries and daily self regulating for? It’s grown my capacity to change. Which is constant.
It’s made room for my soul to hear itself.
I've found relatable connections with others and we share stories that bring new light.
It’s given me a chance to see what I am really made of.
It’s created a resiliency that I can trust. This trust infuses with a growing confidence, so no matter what comes my way, I know I can breathe into it. I can stand up to the challenge, believe in who I am and get through anything.
I choose to share this, because perhaps you need to hear this.
A reminder that YOU are AMAZING!!!!
A cheers to all that you have been through or may be going through currently.
To the approaching challenges that taunt you.
You are SO capable.
You are SO deserving of your own trust.
You are SO filled with possibilities.
You are SO uniquely you.
You are here to be discovered.
You are here to remember.
You ARE limitless!
May I be a guiding light, from one soul to another:
I believe in you, your journey, all of it.
I trust that the Universe always has your back.
Your path is connected to so many others.
Give to yourself and share it with others.
Someone needs to know you.
Someone needs to be needed by you.
Someone could use your voice.
Someone wants to be remembered by you.
You may truly need you.
No matter what the experience, it’s yours.
So live it.
I love you.
There are many ways to view clarity, defined it’s “the quality of being clear, in particular.” Now clear in what? There are vast directions that can be taken.
For today, we will see it through the lens of SELF.
I can hear with clarity, when I am focused on listening.
I can see with clarity, when I chose to look carefully or widen my view.
I can feel with clarity, when I am open to all the sensations, pains or prompts.
I can sense with clarity and all the above, when I’ve understood what my stories are and what perceptions stop me from receiving clearly.
No matter how each one's perceived, there is an accountability on our part, within our perception that is necessary to explore, so we can experience clarity.
This responsibility can be seen as a burden, and believe me some days it TRULY can feel that way!!!
It can also be accepted as a chance to take an adventure into ourself, to tackle a challenge that’s had the reins for far too long.
Imagine, what would it feel like in our body, mind and heart if we were riding a wooden wagon, horses wildly running without reins, in every which direction they choose and us just hanging on for the ride. Not so fun!
Adventurous to say the least.
Can you relate to this?
Have you been in a place, many times or a couple, where your reactions, sensations or thinking are like holding on for dear life to the wagon, as life throws you experiences or challenges?
Here’s what I want to bring home today.
Clarity, in all it’s directions, has one main goal, in my view.
To empower the Light bearer, meaning you.
The soul spark that is operating the vessel (body) you are in.
Giving opportunities to learn the map of where we’ve come from, so that we can re-route or re-set for the times to come.
In turn directing the horses with the reins, in calm clarity.
Does that feel good?
So what’s to come with Clarity?
A whole lot of confidence, knowing what’s yours and what’s someone else’s.
BIG TOOL right there!
Awareness in what you want more of and what you've had enough of.
This tool offers the focus to have a life you actually like and want.
Clarity provides boundaries for yourself and others, ensuring that you are always doing what it is you would like vs what you don’t want.
When we are aware of triggers, stories, habits or perceptions, there's access to owning our own energy. Then we can decide how to release and what to put in place to support ourself, our growth and the relationships we have with others.
My favourite, is the TRUST that grows from clarity.
Through knowing on the other side of pain is pleasure.
On the other side of grief is joy. On the other side of anger is release.
Each place we reach within ourself is experienced outside ourself too.
Trusting the process, knowing where we are with ourself through each milestone, encounter, experience or challenge, can offer ease and acceptance.
What a gift!
Think of when you go to pick a flavour of ice cream, it helps to know what flavours you enjoy or dislike. It helps to know which ingredients agree with your body and which don’t. An awareness of what size of ice cream makes you feel just full enough and satisfied, vs over indulging then being in pain from too much.
We can take this example into our lives. Getting to know all the aspects of ourself with the intent of clarity, offers new doorways of discovery.
It can offer turbulent waters to master that prepare for the gentle calm we get to receive after. No matter how we look at this, YOU are worthy of knowing yourself and taking conscious steps towards fully understanding ALL of you.
That is what we are here for.
Lessons, learning, growing and creating.
In a nut shell!
There are many ways to invest in getting to the sources of what we are made up of, what we would like to become and what we are here to accomplish.
We are all part of the whole.
Thank you for doing your part. For taking the reins or letting yourself fly by the hooves of the horses. Either way, you are exactly where you need to be RIGHT NOW and you WILL be guided to where you want to be next, if you seek or ask for clarity.
May this year provide you all the experiences and adventures that bring you closer to yourself, so you are in clarity about why you are here.
What you came to enjoy and how you can be part of this evolving world.
So much love
Woman, Wife, Mother and Intuitive. Consciously evolving with all of nature and humanity.